Sotally Tober?
We Have 125 Ways To Fix That!
A game of activities, secret roles, curses, and drinking. Draw a card, do what it says — there aren’t necessarily winners and losers, but you’re all guaranteed to have a great time along the way.
- 4+ players
- Ages 21+
- 20+ minutes
- 125 cards
Everything You Need For a PerfectDrinks Party
No app required, no setup, no explaining the rules twice. Open the box, deal the cards, and the room does the rest — dares to pull off, votes to survive, skills to lord over your friends, and drinks for the unlucky.
Inject Some Life Into Your Evening WithHilarious Challenges
You're all guaranteed to have a great time along the way.
I came out of my shell. Then I wrapped myself in toilet paper.
Technically I never lose. Read my card.
Testimonials courtesy of the deck’s imagination — the real ones are just below.
Don't Just Take Our Word for It
4.9— 19 reviews from Etsy
We played this for the first time last night. I haven’t laughed that hard in a long time. Great fun!
This game is super funny to play—even for a bunch of 50year olds. Great way to have some fun during covid lockdown! Highly recommend!
Very fun and innovative drinking game. Plenty of cards to keep the fun going for a long time.
This is my new favorite game to play with my friends. Shipped super quick too!
This game is SO FUN! Will definitely get you and your group laughing!
I gifted this as a white elephant gift with friends and it was a hit all around! Very fun game!! 10/10 Would recommend!
It was exactly as said. Perfect condition. Fun game. Def a must buy for those social gatherings.
The game is super fun and easy to understand, we couldn't get enough! The cards are packed pretty tight in the box and not much wiggle room so just be careful with the box!
The cards are thicker than normal, and I love that!! And altogether it seems like it’s going to be a great party game!
Lots of fun!! It’s a great game for casual drinking or hanging out. Would definitely recommend, I’m even considering purchasing the other versions as well!
I am so glad I got this; I am using it for a wine tasting party to celebrate my 50th. Awesome game! I am pretty sure that everyone will have a blast.
It's a fun game!! Played it for New Years with my cousins!! We had a good time!! It's a good game to have you laughing!! Recommended!
Very fun game. Highly recommend for adult game nights
My step dad is really hard to shop for but he loved this gift and will be taking it on totally sober fishing excursions.
Took a bit to get here but it's a great game. Easy to play and causes much laughter.
This game is so hilarious and SO much fun to play!!
Hilarious and awesome game, it was a hit!
Some of the cards are kind of weird but it seems fun!
Can’t wait to play this game. Looks so fun. Arrived in the mail pretty quick!
Pick Up & Play
Simple Rules Mean Fun Starts Right Away
Straight from the rules sheet: “Draw a card, do what it says, discard it or keep it as appropriate, drink responsibly. Read on if you really like rules.”
Lord It Over Your Friends
With special Skills and secret surprises.
Get Struck Down With
Wacky Curses — or turn the tables with game-wide Decrees.
Six Kinds of Trouble
Every card is color-coded to show its type. Here’s what you’re in for — straight from the rules.
Activity Card
Read it out loud, perform the activity. Discarded face up into the memories pile.
Secret Card
Keep it hidden, face down. Play it at any point in the game — use it wisely.
Curse Card
Read it out loud and follow its rules. Stays in play until it leaves your possession.
Skill Card
A power you keep. Use it at your discretion — until someone takes it from you.
Decree Card
Placed by the deck; everyone must abide. Only two decrees can rule at once.
Bonus Card
The black card. The table invents its role before the game begins — then must live with it.
Want every detail? Read the full rules sheet (and the back).
How Far
Will You Go?
Start or End
Your Night Right
Whatever You Can Remember The Next Day, Remember It Fondly.
Sotally Tober also runs in the browser — one person starts a room, everyone joins with a code, and the same 125 cards deal themselves. Try a round before the box even ships.
Make Your Own Card
Have an awesome idea for a new card? The deck grows — pick a type, write it, watch it become a card. If it makes the cut, you’ll hear from us.
A rough preview — the real deck gets the full print treatment.
Fair Questions, Honest Answers
Do we have to drink to play?
No — the rules themselves offer the sober version: swap drinks for points and the lowest score wins instead. Same cards, same chaos, no hangover.
How many players do we need?
Four or more, ages 21+. A round runs 20-plus minutes, and the game only gets funnier as the table gets bigger.
Can we try it before buying?
Yes — Sotally Tober runs free in your browser. One person starts a room, everyone joins with a code, and the same 125 cards deal themselves.
Is it going to be too much for our group?
Every card carries the same out: do what it says, or take the drink. And the rules are explicit that no card should ever be used to force anyone into anything.
What's the difference from Close & Personal?
Same rules, same deer, different deck. This is the original — the one to start a group on. Close & Personal is its nosier sibling: 125 all-new cards that skip straight past small talk.
How fast does it ship?
We pack every box ourselves and ship from the US to US addresses within 2–3 business days, and orders of $35 or more ship free.
Buy The Game, Have a Drink!
Made for people who don’t mind being silly in front of their friends. No card should ever be used to force anyone into anything — and always drink responsibly. Ships from the US, packed by us.
Original or Close & Personal?
Same rules, same deer, same six card types — draw a card, do what it says, or drink. The difference is how far the deck goes.
Sotally Tober
Start the night here
- The starter deck — 125 cards of activities, secrets and curses
- The best first box for a group that's new to the game
$22.95
Close & Personal
Finish the night here
- 125 all-new cards that skip straight past small talk
- For groups with nothing left to hide — or about to have
$24.95
New to Sotally Tober? You’re in the right place. Group already skipped small talk years ago? Meet the nosier sibling.
Or don’t choose — complete the pair
Start the night with the original, finish it Close & Personal. Both boxes for $47.90 — and shipping's on us.
